All of us have wishes, desires, goals in all aspects of Life. When we expect some change in our life we look for the solutions around and expect our desired results to be reached so soon. However, most of us having issues in getting our expected results.As per Law of Attraction, we should always focus on the end result, but most of the time our conscious mind raise the doubt as “How”. Our conscious mind is much interested in pushing us to think about the “How”. Here I have listed few tips to eliminate “How” and shift our focus only on “End Result/Goal” using Visualization.
Money:
Scenario: You are thinking to buy a Mercedes-Benz Car or a Bungalow, Your monthly earning is 25000 Rupees.
Issue: You have read about LOA, doing visualization, being grateful for all the things you have in your life and waiting for the Universe/God to send you, your dream car or bungalow. But most of the time your mind asking you the how. “I earn 25k per month, how will I have a 25Lakh car? or who will give me money to buy a bungalow. These are the issues you have often even though you are into a positive state of mind most of the time.
Solution: As per LOA, your job is to “Ask, Believe & Receive” only. You need not think about the “how” it will be taken care by Universe. The Universe will move the right people and circumstances to get your wish fulfilled. So in this case, Just visualize the end result.
What will you do if the car is at your doorstep? You will buy a garland and put it on the front bonnet and take the car to temple. After that, you will take your parents or beloved ones in that car and be going for a city drive. Your heart is filled with happiness and you drive your car with utmost care as it is a new car. You play the favorite songs and feel the chilled air inside the cabin. Never ever have a second thought how all this will happen. If you think so, you are blocking your car! Also, always believe once you asked, it will be given to you. But when you ask for it, add as much “details” you can. For example, you want to have a “red” color car and the number plate has “4444” number etc.
Job:
Scenario: You are trying for a Job in Google Corporation and your skill set is Java.
Issue: You came to know Google stop recruiting Java skilled professionals. So the Mr.Negative wakes up in your mind and started laughing at you. All your energy level goes down immediately from happiness state, you feel very low within few minutes after reading that info from Google.
Solution: Your job is to think the end-result. You got the job offer from google, you inform all of your friends, buying good outfits, wearing that ID card, with much happiness and joy you are going to the office for the first day. Visualize all these. Period. “How” this will happen is not our Job!!! : )
Health:
Scenario: You are having back pain for several months
Issue: All the time you are focusing on your pain and sharing your pain with your friends and keep on multiplying the pain. Your conscious mind says ” I had a tablet, but why my pain is not reduced or gone?” Why why why all the time you self-doubt and focusing on pain.
Solution: Never focus on the pain. Be happy for nothing. Happiness heals. Watch comedy serials/clips and laugh out loud. Laughter and happiness are the best medicine. Also, focus on the end result, that is your perfect body. Visualize what and all will you do if your back is healed!, You will walk faster in that staircase, You touch your toes. While taking a shower you touch your back and feel it is healed and stronger than ever. By focusing on your healthy body in your mental state, your physical body will start healing itself.
Relationship:
Scenario: Your parents looking for an alliance for you for several months
Issue: You always have doubt in your mind how will you get the perfect partner. He/She will understand you or not, will he/she love& care me?
Solution: Visualize your mom is knocking your door in an early Sunday morning. You got up from your bed and opening the door with sleepy eyes. Your mom hand over a photograph of your life partner and ask you whether you like him/her or not. You like him on the first sight and you are amazed that this was the picture you were holding on your mind. Soon their family comes to your house and you meet him/her and you both spend some time alone for a quick first chat. He/she answers you the way you wanted. All his/her questions were your expected questions and you got that “feel” and you are on cloud nine! Wow, your parents have shown you the best life partner you were always looking for! After your marriage, you both get the blessings of elders by touching their feet and your heart is filled with happiness.
I hope these tips will help you to focus only on “end result” rather than thinking on the “How”. Thanks to all the teachers/coaches/friends who have taught me this. Have a wonderful weekend ahead with loads of happiness! 🙂
Love,
Rajesh Vairapandian.